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    From Shawn Highfield@1:229/452 to Ruth Haffly on Fri Nov 15 07:56:11 2024
    Hello Ruth!

    13 Nov 24 12:31, you wrote to me:

    meal. Mom has a full size fridge, a small microwave and a full size
    sink in her apartment so she can do some food prep on her own but
    usually eats in the central dining room.

    That's not too bad then, at least if she's not feeling like being around people she can heat up soup or something,

    months later. Dad had been living at home, with a live in caregiver
    for about 15 months before then. Now my brother owns the family home.

    Good that it stayed in the family after your parents had to move out.

    I can get up, but it takes more work and hopefully something to grab
    hold of. Pain levels ebb and flow but are usually manageable with low levels of medication thru out the day.

    I'm in near constant pain now but thankfully I don't need any medication yet, I just deal with it and limp / move slow / get in everones way. Once a day I allow myself a smoke of cannabis which takes the pain away enough I can get to sleep. I had a script for it for years and years, but gave it up when they legalized it for all use here, it's easier to just walk to one of the many thousand stores. LOL

    Shawn

    ... Don't kiss an elephant on the lips today.
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  • From Ruth Haffly@1:396/45.28 to Shawn Highfield on Fri Nov 15 17:20:48 2024
    Hi Shawn,


    meal. Mom has a full size fridge, a small microwave and a full size
    sink in her apartment so she can do some food prep on her own but
    usually eats in the central dining room.

    That's not too bad then, at least if she's not feeling like being
    around people she can heat up soup or something,

    True, she is able to get out and shop for her favorite soups, cold cuts,
    etc.


    months later. Dad had been living at home, with a live in caregiver
    for about 15 months before then. Now my brother owns the family home.

    Good that it stayed in the family after your parents had to move out.

    Yes, the thought crossed our mind about buying it but we were never in
    the place to do so. My brother was so we let him have it.


    I can get up, but it takes more work and hopefully something to grab
    hold of. Pain levels ebb and flow but are usually manageable with low levels of medication thru out the day.

    I'm in near constant pain now but thankfully I don't need any
    medication yet, I just deal with it and limp / move slow / get in
    everones way. Once a day I allow myself a smoke of cannabis which
    takes the pain away enough I can get to sleep. I had a script for it
    for years and years, but gave it up when they legalized it for all use here, it's easier to just walk to one of the many thousand stores.
    LOL

    I use prescription meds, don't want to put any smoke down already
    damaged lungs.

    ---
    Catch you later,
    Ruth
    rchaffly{at}earthlink{dot}net FIDO 1:396/45.28


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  • From Shawn Highfield@1:229/452 to Ruth Haffly on Sat Nov 16 17:45:29 2024
    Ruth Haffly wrote in a message to Shawn Highfield:

    True, she is able to get out and shop for her favorite soups, cold
    cuts, etc.

    That's the main thing.

    Yes, the thought crossed our mind about buying it but we were never
    in the place to do so. My brother was so we let him have it.

    I understand that. I was in a position to buy a family home and I did, however times changed and I ended up having to sell it. Ah well sometimes life doesn't go the way we want.

    ... I'm tired of thinking up new taglines
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  • From Ruth Haffly@1:396/45.28 to Shawn Highfield on Sun Nov 17 20:10:18 2024
    Hi Shawn,


    Yes, the thought crossed our mind about buying it but we were never
    in the place to do so. My brother was so we let him have it.

    I understand that. I was in a position to buy a family home and I
    did, however times changed and I ended up having to sell it. Ah well sometimes life doesn't go the way we want.

    Some people do live life the way they thought they would as they were
    growing up. I think that's a rather small percentage tho; there's
    usually something that will change their life in previously unforseen
    ways. One of the big events that changed our direction was when Steve
    enlisted in the Army. We lived in a lot of new/different places and as
    part of that, ate a lot of different foods we never knew existed or had
    maybe just read about. We'd never thought about living in AZ but about a
    year after we moved there, one of Steve's computer friends introduced
    him to Fido...............and here I am.

    I'd not heard of an Ocracoke fig cake the first time we lived in NC but
    some time after we moved back to the state, the Raleigh paper had an
    article about it. At the time it was just an interesting read but when
    we bought this house and Steve planted a fig tree, I needed something to
    do with all the figs we got last year. I remembered the article, went on
    a recipies site and found a recipe. It's now part of my cooking
    "heritage".







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    Catch you later,
    Ruth
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  • From Shawn Highfield@1:229/452 to Ruth Haffly on Mon Nov 18 17:11:00 2024
    Hi Ruth,
    On <Mon, 17 Nov 24>, you wrote me:

    Some people do live life the way they thought they would as they were growing up. I think that's a rather small percentage tho; there's

    I would agree.

    maybe just read about. We'd never thought about living in AZ but
    about a year after we moved there, one of Steve's computer friends introduced him to Fido...............and here I am.

    Well glad he told you about it! ;)

    do with all the figs we got last year. I remembered the article, went
    on a recipes site and found a recipe. It's now part of my cooking "heritage".

    Very nice!

    Shawn
    ... Don't mind me; I'm the designated drunk.


    --- Grumble
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  • From Ruth Haffly@1:396/45.28 to Shawn Highfield on Tue Nov 19 15:15:07 2024
    Hi Shawn,


    Some people do live life the way they thought they would as they were growing up. I think that's a rather small percentage tho; there's

    I would agree.

    I think some of my siblings may fit into that category. One lives in the
    house he came home from the hospital as a newborn to; another lives a
    couple of hours away. Knowing what I do about their lives leads me to
    that conclusion.


    maybe just read about. We'd never thought about living in AZ but
    about a year after we moved there, one of Steve's computer friends introduced him to Fido...............and here I am.

    Well glad he told you about it! ;)

    Yes, I was also in a crafting and a sewing/quilting echo while they
    existed. I miss them at times but not the negative aspects (that's all
    I'll say) of them.


    do with all the figs we got last year. I remembered the article, went
    on a recipes site and found a recipe. It's now part of my cooking "heritage".

    Very nice!

    The fig cake is quite popular whenever I bring it to an event. Last
    winter I brought it to an American Legion/Auxiliary dinner and had 3
    requests for the recipe once word got out who brought the cake.

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    Catch you later,
    Ruth
    rchaffly{at}earthlink{dot}net FIDO 1:396/45.28


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  • From Shawn Highfield@1:229/452 to Ruth Haffly on Thu Nov 21 06:37:00 2024
    Hi Ruth,
    On <Wed, 19 Nov 24>, you wrote me:

    Yes, I was also in a crafting and a sewing/quilting echo while they existed. I miss them at times but not the negative aspects (that's
    all I'll say) of them.

    Probably a long gone echo now anyway. So many of them are no longer
    used.

    The fig cake is quite popular whenever I bring it to an event. Last
    winter I brought it to an American Legion/Auxiliary dinner and had 3 requests for the recipe once word got out who brought the cake.

    That's great. I've never tried a fig cake, but I'm sure I'd like it as
    I like most fig dishes I've tried.

    Shawn

    ... Junk - stuff we throw away. Stuff - junk we keep.


    --- Grumble
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